A big problem many people have is getting involved in things that don’t concern them. Asking personal questions like “How old are you?” or “How much do you make?” may be common in some cultures but have no real benefit and can be disrespectful.

The Prophet ﷺ said that part of being a good Muslim is leaving what doesn’t concern you. 

When Imam Shafi’i asked Imam Malik his age, Imam Malik replied, “What is it to you?”—a reminder to mind our own business. 

Just like people stopping to watch workers digging a hole in the street, we’re often drawn to things that have nothing to do with us. But true wisdom is knowing when to look away and focus on ourselves.